When a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia, the news itself is often enough to turn a family upside down. Alzheimer’s care options must be considered, and decisions made, that will impact everyone.
The first thing to understand is that not providing care, on your own, is not a failing. It is nearly impossible for many people to put their job and other obligations aside and devote their entire days and nights to Alzheimer care. The goal is for the family to select the option that provides the best care possible, and a family member is often not the right person. Caregiver burn-out is a serious by-product of family members assuming the role of full-time caretaker. Many instances occur where the caregiver becomes ill, from stress and fatigue, now compounding the problem.
For those with mild impairment, private in-home care may be sufficient. A person with basic training in elder care can be hired to monitor the well-being of the dementia patient and provide a needed presence in the home to prevent accidents, injury or becoming lost.
As the impairment progresses, particularly if the patient wanders or stops sleeping at night, an assisted living facility with a ‘memory care’ section may be a better option. These facilities are staffed with personnel specifically trained on dementia in its various forms and the residential areas are secured to prevent wandering.
Most facilities offer varying levels of care, so your loved one can be as independent as possible. In most cases, dementia patients settle into a routine and are comfortable and content. Remember, that safety and proper care are the ultimate goals, and don’t feel guilty about exploring the best options for their dementia care.